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An Exclusive Retreat for Couples

Intimate Lovers Retreat

27 - 31August - Netherlands

If you are a tantric couple ready to deepen your connection and grow together in intimacy, than join Arja for a 5 day couple retreat where you will learn tools to dive deeply into Tantra, Erotic Rituals & Sacred Sexuality and take your tantric lovemaking to the next level. 

Feel deeper connected to your partner

Grow together in intimacy
Take your relationship to the next level
Receive exclusive tantra teachings
Learn intimate tools to take home and practice


You and your beloved are surrounded by candlelight, your eyes connected, fingers intertwined. The bright moon illuminates your room while the subtle breeze gently caresses your skin. You feel your body’s delight after sharing a beautiful, sacred, erotic ritual together. It seems that time stopped, there is just you, your partner, and a deeper intimacy that unites the two of you on a level that touches the depth of your souls.

And this is not any kind of retreat...


As the night sky darkens,

your private room turns into a sacred temple,

where the bed is the altar,

your lovemaking is the prayer

and your ego is the offering.




Just Imagine

I wish I learned about this years ago! It brought us to such a deeper place of love, intimacy & connection, every couple needs this!

- Ieva, Lituania


Here is what will happen when you come:

While we will be playfully indulging in the sensuous
delights of love, ritual,
and eroticism, this will also be an empowering, life-changing experience.


Each event, each class — each moment — is carefully designed to deeply immerse and work with your personal relationship with sexuality,  to support the profound and ritualistic experiences waiting for you. 

As you enter our sacred space you will:

♥ Step into a sexual sanctuary, this retreat is an immersion into your body, heart, and soul where you will enjoy the sexual education you always wanted to receive

♥ Learn to engage with your partner in a way that is connected, open-hearted and radiantly real. You will deepen your capacity to love, honor and trust yourself and meet each other from a place of true authenticity.  



♥ Be initiated into erotic rituals you never knew existed. These rituals have blown my mind, opened my heart, and left me in awe of the magnificence of this universe. It transformed my life, and I know it will transform yours too.  



We want to join!


Why you'd want to be there


Increase your mindfulness with daily meditation


Learn sacred sexual rituals


Prioritise your relationship


Boost your

spiritual practice

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Stay at a magical venue 


Receive top class knowledge about Tantra


Experience synchronized lovemaking rituals


Practice Tantric

Hatha Yoga


Joining Arja's courses felt heart-opening, grounding, intense, thought fully prepared and very very much needed! The course took me way beyond practical info that I can google myself to something truly heart opening and transformation - both for me individually as well as for our couple.

Isabelle, Uk

This journey will touch your life, bring tremendous depth to your relationship, connects you to the power of the spiritual heart, invites you to discover the sacred world of sexual eroticism, and heal lingering wounds of sexuality, for you, your partner and all of humanity for years to come. 

Your Journey

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Sexual Inquiry

Part 1

You will begin your journey with a profound inquiry into sexuality, especially in relation to today’s world and how reclaiming your sexual nature can ignite your empowerment. We can’t go into the depth of erotic tantric ritual if our minds are still filled with the old musty dusty conditionings of society. You will be sensitively guided to move through places of numbness or resistance, and from there into compassionate acceptance of all that you are. You will embrace the practices that support a healthy integration of sexuality into spirituality, making you ready to drop into the profound sacredness of love, ritual & eroticism. 


Make sure to read the whole journey! >


Ohh the possibilities,
by the end of this journey...


You will feel powerful

at heart & connected with your deepest spiritual aspiration. Calling in the intelligence of the divine feminine and divine masculine you will rejoice in a space of adoration, worship, and devotion, offering all your love to the Gods.


You let your soul rise and overpower any lingering doubts about the sacredness of sex. You will feel confident to guide your own tantric ritual and you will continue to add rituals to your life, both in and outside of the bedroom. 
With a foundation like this, partnership becomes divine.


Your sexuality will open up fully, and you start to feel all of life. Your love will grow in magnitude, and it will connect you to the wisdom of your own heart. You will start to feel the full vitality of existence far beyond your personal self. This is an awakening to your own divinity, inviting you to dissolve in awareness itself.


As you come into your fullness, your capacity to share love, pleasure and sexuality expands. By the end of our journey, you will leave with a tremendous feeling that the way you related to sexuality, love, ritual, and eroticism will never be quite the same..

We want to go deeper into Tantra!


The Venue

As this is not any kind of retreat, you will be staying at a special venue, New Eden, which feels like a little oasis hidden in the north of the Netherlands. 

Many people who joined before you confess that this space has a special energy, which will empower you to dive even deeper. 

This space is 100% private, and offers a ecological friendly environment, yes I care about these details too!


You can go for a romantic hike in the forrest, cuddle up next to the pond, spoon each other in the grass or share a hammock in the sun. 


Your bedroom

Ohhhh, let me tell you about your bedroom.
It is here where you will be spending 4 nights with your beloved on your side. You will have your own private room and your own bathroom. 

This is the place which you and your partner will turn into a sacred temple, and yes, you will receive all the decoration, candles, roses, incense and much more you need for that! This will be your space, where you will share the most intimate moments together.
And after your sacred temple is created...

...only God is allowed to witness the magic that will happen there


The rooms will be newly renovated before our retreat, therefore there is no accurate picture

The Cuisine

During this retreat, you will be indulging in your senses in many ways, and of course, the meals are not an exception to that! We will share delicious vegan & vegetarian meals. 


If you do not eat this or that, no worries, we will accommodate your preferences.


You will be eating delicious veggies, fresh fruit,
and even the finest homemade chocolate!


Your days will be filled with exquisite meals and luscious snacks. Your dinners will be adventurers affairs with candlelights 

We want to prioritise our relationship!


What do you gain by spending

4 mysterious nights & 5 delightful days

at the Intimate Lovers Retreat?


Well, what if you became authentically inspired to fully
reconnect sexuality with spirituality,

living the love, sex & relationship you completely,
absolutely and totally adore — matching perfectly with your spiritual practice?


How would it feel to move away from your busy lives and 
prioritise your relationship for 5 full days,
spending top-notch, romantic, erotic, sensual, and serious quality time with your beloved?


And how would it feel to receive the initiation that will enable you to

practice erotic tantric rituals in your own home

(not once but for many more years to come!)

Magnifying your sexual life, the connection with your partner

and your aspiration for the Divine?


And what if you picked up a sense of total body love,

at the same time releasing old conditioning and sexual shame,

healing your relationship to sexuality, and building your trust in the Divine?



Wouldn’t that be amazing?


You bet it would! PLUS, you’ll get to soak in the vital energy of other beautiful couples.

But there’s even MORE! Let me tell you about the bonuses 

This was so sexually opening, and I learned so many useful tools

to practice with my partner

Lena, Germany


The Bonuses

     Just because I care, you will also receive:


Access to Intimate Lovers Private Facebook Group.

This is a place to connect with the whole group pre-trip, you can ask questions and receive update-to-date trip info, and then we’ll stay connected post-trip. This will be a place to collaborate, share heart to heart and encourage and support each other in your Divine Sexual Awakening.


Secret E-mail List
Both of you will be added to my secret e-mail list. Doing rituals is my true passion and I will continue to organize synchronized lovemaking rituals throughout the year. You will join a group of experienced tantrics that are all syncing up their time-zones to unite and make love for God at exactly the same moment! 



What is included?

  5 solid days of profound tantra teachings 
     to become more intimate with your partner


 4 romantic nights in your private room + bathroom.

    You will get all the materials to make this your private temple space, 

    a sacred place where you and your partner can dive deeply into         tantric lovemaking.  


♥ 12 Healthy, mostly organic, home made vegetarian meals                  (breakfast - lunch - dinner)

♥  2 Extra snacks a day with organic fruit, fresh water & delicious tea 


 4 Tantric Morning Puja's to start your day full of inspiration 


 3 erotic tantric rituals that will take your lovemaking to the next level


 Synchronised lovemaking ritual to deeply connect your hearts 

 Course booklet with step by step description and tools of each ritual.

     Yes you can take it home & do them for the rest of your life!


  5 Heart Meditations


  4 classes of Tantric Hatha Yoga


 30+ Hours of quality time with your partner


Not included


♥  Transportation to the venue or airfare when coming             from abroad. You will be provided with detailed               information how to get there and plan your trip.

♥  Additional meals or snacks which are not listed

♥  Any extra expenses which are not part of the program


♥  Personal, medical or travel insurance



This is what we have been looking for!

This retreat is totally for you two if:

  • You have been around in the world of Tantra, you want to go deeper, but don't know where to go

  • You are ready to enter a sexual sanctuary

  • You are excited to learn erotic rituals like no-one has ever taught you before.

  • You want to have lots of fun while exploring your sexuality in a new way

  • You are ready for a holiday that will rock you and your partner's world!

  • You are yearning for a profound connection with sexuality and spirituality.

  • You are ready to authentically and uniquely manifest your fullest (Love) life

  • You’re both excited and nervous about this retreat!


This retreat is not for you both if:

  • You are completely new to Tantra

  • You don’t want to understand sacred sexuality on a deeper level and prefer to stay with superficial tantric practices.

  • You are not willing to put in the effort, time and dedication to create an amazing sex life

  • You enjoy making excuses, being negative or defensive

  • Spiritual exploration, personal growth, and major breakthroughs bore you.

  • You aren’t willing to laugh, cry, hug – and get a little dusty dirty.


Important details

This course is for experienced couples in the field of tantra who are committed to both personal as well as spiritual growth. The retreat includes nudity and intimate practices and therefore requires a mature attitude towards sexuality & spirituality and is not for the faint-hearted. If you haven't done any Tantra courses yet this retreat is not for you. 


Please carefully consider your level of readiness and maturity

before applying for this retreat.


During our time together will both go into the depth of tantric rituals as well as sexuality, self-accountability and work to strengthen the connection with both your personal and transcended self.


Working with sexuality can involve challenges on multiple levels and I will put all my love, energy and support to guide you and your beloved on a magical as well as transformational journey, and I need your help for that!


So, if you are ready to take the next step in your personal, spiritual and relationship life and offer all your love, pleasures and devotion to the Gods than this retreat is made for you. 


My promise to you

After 7 years of traveling the world completely by myself, I couldn’t do anything else than devote my life to the tantric path. I have been greatly inspired while living in tantric communities and study with the foremost spiritual leaders and teachers all around the world.


I spend all my finances (literally till I was almost broke!) on the most profound tantra initiations and different tantra, yoga, and meditation teacher training programs. I have spent over 100 days meditating in silence, connecting with the depth of the Heart, while also struggling with all the hesitations of the mind. 


Only after I discovered the importance of yoga and meditation and its integration with tantra, I began the long, slow road to discover the magic that is hidden in this world.


Tantric rituals have always had a special place inside my Heart and I can't express with words how it ignites the longing inside my heart, how it places me in prayer on my knees and how my soul trembles in gratitude while experiencing the grace that flows through during these special moments.


Thanks to the grace of these rituals, I have experienced the most profound,

the most elevated, the most captivating, the most heart opening & mind-blowing experiences and I can't wait to share these profound rituals with you and your beloved. 


Therefore I have combined, my intensive and comprehensive study,  

self-practice, research, and personal experiences to create the most valuable, the most sacred, the most life-changing and transformational retreat for you.


I guarantee that this retreat is put together with the most love, care, passion, and enthusiasm that will not only change your life forever…
You will have the practical tools you need to adapt erotic rituals as a part of your life, not just for a few days, no for the rest of your life.


Yes Arja we want to join!


Frequently Asked Questions

♥  Is there nudity during the group sessions? 
Nudity is something that is invited and encouraged, yet it is not obligatory,
you and your partner can decide what feels right at any moment.

Do I have to exchange partners in this retreat?

 No, the content of this course does not involve exchanging partners. 
If this is something you are interested in or curious about, the retreat will give you the 
opportunity to optionally explore with other couples, however it is not something that is part of the fixed program. 

♥  Is this retreat fully in English? 
Yes this retreat is aimed for international couples,
the whole program will be in taught in English

♥  Do I need to sign up with a partner of the opposite gender?
Yes, as much as I respect couples of all gender identities and preferences,  
I am specialised in working with heterosexual couples. Therefore you are asked to sign up with your partner of the opposite gender. 
♥  We are new to Tantra can we join?
This retreat is for experienced couples, if you are new to Tantra I invite you to join one of my other courses first. I wish to place a group together who are in the same line of experience, therefore I will not accept couples who are completely new into this retreat. 

Any lingering questions? Please ask!

Thanks beloveds! I will get back to you shortly!