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Dark Desires
Express what you want with confidence.
Be the temptress of sexual communication.
A self study course for powerful women
ready to express their true sexuality.
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You have this secret desire to tap into your own eroticism.

You want to move away from feeling uncomfortable to speak up or express what you want in bed and turn into that sexy, feminine part of yourself who feels empowered, confident and able to express herself fully,.

Consider this an invitation to enjoy pleasure on your terms.

There are moments where you feel so sexy and turned on you can’t stop yourself, you can’t keep your hands off your own body.

But on the flip side, there are also moments in the bedroom where you find it hard to express what you want, keep quiet when it doesn't feel so good and find yourself crossing your own boundaries instead of honouring your desires and needs. 

You would love to be this woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.

Who feels proud to be who she is and confidently states what she desires, in a way it doesn't feel awkward, turns him off, or kills your mood.


Dark Desires will give you all the tools to feel confident in bed and let your sexuality shine! Raise the bar of your sexual experiences, intimacy and relationship so that you are able to connect more deeply with your sexual self and experience layers of pleasure all tantric women talk about!

What previous clients say:

“As a woman who feels more in my head, I needed practices that really brought me into my body. I went from being a woman who is not that orgasmic and not having access to deeper pleasure to really transforming and  feeling very connected to my pleasure and deepened the relationship with myself.”

Elaina Ray, 6-figure business coach, USA

Tell me if this sounds like you
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You love being intimate with your partner, but find it difficult to relax and let go in bed.

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You hold yourself back when things don't feel so great, and rather keep quiet instead of honouring your body and your needs.

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You don't dare to set your boundaries or speak up for what want.

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You are longing for more presence in the bedroom but your head gets in the way and worry about too many things. 

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You would love to express more of what you want and desire in bed but you're not sure HOW to do that in a way that doesn't feel awkward or makes him feel like he did something wrong. 

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You want to get out of the pleaser mode and are looking for a way to create this deep beautiful connection that you are desiring, and you've waited for it long enough.

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If you have ever found yourself too afraid to speak up in the bedroom worried you might kill the mood or be judged for your boldness, it's time we have a chat.

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or 20+ years,
intimacy and passion are all about communication - but when you shy away from voicing your needs, feel embarrassed about asking for what you want, or worry that your partner will take your direction as criticism, we end up too much in our heads and not enough in our bodies.


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It’s not your fault that you feel challenged to express yourself authentically.
Powerful women are not given the respect they deserve.

1. We live in a society that doesn’t support women to openly and honestly express themselves. We’re taught not to be expressive, always keeping this images of “I’m fine.”

2. Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. 

3. You didn’t receive a proper sexual education, and especially not about sexual communication. You may have been taught to please the man in your life first. You may have been led to believe that sex is more for men, that only they enjoy it, and you may experience guilt around receiving.

I get it, love, I have been there too.


Hi, I am Arja

When people first meet me nowadays, they believe I have always felt confident to express myself, and in touch with my pleasure. 

But they couldn't be more wrong!

In fact, I used to be so in my head that sex was more of a mental turn on. I rarely felt orgasmic and I thought that feeling sore after sex was normal.


When I discovered Sexual Tantra,
I found out how wrong I was.

I started to be orgasmic, enjoy hours of lovemaking, and learned how to express myself sexually,
exactly the way I wanted.

Years later, I have helped hundreds of women to radically transform their sex lives, have the intimate relationships of their dreams, and get in touch with their own sexuality so that they feel powerful and free in their own bodies. 


And now it's your turn.


Meet Joni:

"Arja is an amazing coach and does amazing work.
It was life-changing for me to do a training of her."

Joni, Project Manager, Netherlands

Dark Desires
This course is your initiation to find your voice in the bedroom.
You will discover your authentic expression so that you feel powerful to say, show and express what you want while dropping into your feminine softness. 

Here’s why Dark Desires is different from anything else out there

  There's a lot of courses related to sexual communication, but most of these focus primarily on boundaries and consent, both of which are important topics and important to establish for pleasure, but many times these courses and programs feel more like sexED in High school ;)

 In erotic expression, you are going to learn this information in a juicy and fun way that’s also practical and spicy enough to get you in the mood immediately. Through my strategies, it’s all about playfulness and activating your pleasure zone. I’ve had many students tell me that they have been turned on just from listening to my lessons!


Beyond the words, even beyond the body movement, it's about the energy coming from the feminine side, coming from within.

You get access to 6 Modules

It's not your task to seek love, but merely to see and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. 


The strongest transformation for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine amongst those who never believed she could

Welcome to the program!

In this module, you'll be setting your intentions and reclaim your power so that you place the focus fully on yourself and lay the foundations for the rest of the course.

You will look back at what isn't working and receive clarity on your intimate desires and needs.

Get ready to move out of pleaser mode and give yourself the permission to put yourself first.

Bonus: be guided to fully drop into yourself with the "awakening the erotic body" meditation


Highlights of module 1

  • The initiation

  • Intention setting & inner alignment

  • Discover what is in the way

  • A powerful exercise to claim your power

If you think that stating your boundaries is scary, you haven't taken these classes yet!   
This module will turn your view on boundaries upside down and you will discover how setting boundaries can be fun and exciting. 

Imagine how good it is going to feel to state your boundaries with softness so that you can relax and let go more during sex.

Get ready to discover how stating your boundaries is your KEY to feeling more pleasure and enjoyment during lovemaking.

PLUS doing it the feminine way will create more mystery around you as a woman and HIS reaction will amaze you. 

Highlights of module 2

  • The beauty of boundaries

  • How to say no from the heart

  • Find your feminine sweet spot

  • Learn how to speak up

Every desire of your body is holy.

Every desire of your body is; Holy. 

Dear one, why wait until you are dying, to discover that divine truth?


Finding it challenging to express yourself is one thing, but knowing what you want is another. 

Be prepared to get hands-on in this module and discover the 4 elements of tantric touch so that you have the tools to discover what you want and more importantly, how you want it. 

Ready to put your sexy lingerie on and sensually seduce your partner into the bedroom?

With the 2 couple exercises included in this part, you won't only deepen your relationship, you'll also discover what he likes so that you have the tools to get out of the regular routine and create new dynamics between you two. 


Highlights of module 3:

  • Practice the 4 different types of tantric touch

  • Double partner exercises to drop into your sensuality

  • BONUS: Discover how to be a lady boss in bed

Even after all this time, the sun never says to the moon
"you owe me"

Look what happens to a love like that, it lights up the whole sky.

- Hafiz

We all know that sensual sounds add to the whole experience, but communicating what you like in bed in a way it turns him on is what creates real sexual magic.

In this module, you get my number #1 - proven to work - communication tools so that you feel confident enough to ask for what you want while also guiding your partner with softness. 

You will receive my exact bedroom scripts so that you know which words work, and which ones don't. With this toolkit in your pocket, you won't ever go wrong - ever again!

Highlights of module 4:

  • Creating an authentic connection

  • Bedroom scripts what to say & what not

  • After sex exercise

  • Turn it on him (get him to express!)

  • Sexual fantasies

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Let there be spaces in your togetherness. 
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Let love be a moving sea between the shores of your souls

- Kahlil Gibran
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“Let us be like two falling stars in the day sky. Let no one know of our sublime beauty as we hold hands with God & burn into a Sacred existence that defies. that surpasses every description of ecstasy & Love" 

- Hafiz

This is where it gets full body sensual, sexy and erotic.

If you would love to be the next queen of sensuality you are going to love my 3-step method to create full-body awareness during love-making. 

With this new body connection, you will know exactly how to communicate your boundaries, your desires and your needs, without using any words so that you have the tools to slow down, spice up, make it wilder, more romantic, heart-centred or intimate.  

P.S This 3-step method also helps you to be more orgasmic, double bonus, double the pleasure!

Highlights of module 5:

  • The 3 pillars of sensual communication

  • How your lungs serve as a sex organ

  • Erotic body movements 

  • My #1 secret exercise to turn it on!

In the end, lovemaking is not about following steps, tools and techniques. 

It's about creating this natural flow where you can melt in full presence, love and intimacy. 

In this last module, it's all coming together so that you can learn how to relax and go with the flow. To let go and melt into his strong arms. 

This is where you learn how to integrate all that you learned so sex is going to feel natural to you. This is what supports you to effortlessly express yourself in a way that feels so good, you will not remember why you were holding yourself back for so long.


Highlights of module 6

  • How to avoid making mistakes

  • The tantric car and the sexual highway

  • How to be a tantric sex goddess

  • BONUS: Video demonstration with a model


Meet Amanda
"The sex with my

partner is

amazing again"

Amanda, Business Consultant, Uk

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How about this bonus to really spice things up?

This Dirty Talk Deep Dive was a real hit! You will break down all of the stereotypes and beliefs you've held up to this point.

You will learn that sex can be sexy AND sacred at the same time. 

Get ready to add one more fun, juicy, sexy and sacred tool to your bedroom kit. This is the ultimate toolkit for any woman who has been afraid to speak up in the bedroom. Lose the shyness and tap into sexy, sacred dirty talk.

Because sometimes words do speak louder than actions and not the other way around.

Value $222


Dark Desires


Here's how you are going to get there:

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6 Modules: Filled with practical tips, mind-shifting lectures and practical tools. Enjoy the ease of going at your own pace from the comfort of your home. These Pre-recorded videos walk you through overcoming current challenges and turn into that sexy, feminine, part of yourself that's waiting to be explored. 

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Embodiment Exercises: Guided exercises are provided to practice the content in the modules, feel more comfortable and build your self-esteem both in & out of the bedroom.

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Couple Exercises: Your (future) partner is going to benefit too. These couple exercises let your relationship go deep. Do these now, or when you meet the right one!

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Bonus Masterclass Dirty Talk Deep Dive: this 2H workshop makes it even more practical and juicy, be ready to get started right away!

When you join today the cost for feeling like a sensual, empowered, erotic, mysterious woman who masters the art of sensual communication & erotic expression is:

Current price: €499

Original price: €1500

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What other's say about Arja's work

Chantal, Radiologist, Netherlands 

I felt lost with the connection with my feminine body and Arja helped me to increase my self-esteem. I got the tools to set my own boundaries and now put them with confidence. I feel more in my body and less in my head so that I feel connected with what I really want as a woman. 

Lexi, EFT Therapist, Australia
I wanted to go deeper into the bedroom with my partner and I didn't know how. The course was truly a transformation for me and I now feel a deeper connection during lovemaking and have heart-centred lovemaking with my partner.  

Amanda, Business consultant, UK
It transformed my relationship I felt there wasn't enough sex in my relationship and by implementing everything I learned our sex went back to the start of our relationship and became like magic electricity!


Alexandra, Project manager, Germany
I had a deep desire to connect with myself, sexuality seemed to be such a big topic for me and now I feel so much has changed. I feel so much closer to my own sexuality, I am enjoying touching myself and by with myself and love myself and the relationship with my partner is changing as a result. I can let go easier & let go more during sex.

Seriana Oonk, Entrepreneur, NL                Hannah, Photographer, Netherlands

"I did multiple courses with Arja and her courses changed my life. I had very low-self esteem, I didn't dare to set my boundaries or speak up about my desires and was in a very depressing moment of my life. I learned to set my boundaries in a strong way, coming from my core power,  Communication feels safe for me to do now and that gives me so much freedom! Arja's courses made me feel so much stronger and less scared in life. I changed from being a very sad, very lonely, very insecure girl into feeling like a strong and powerful woman."  

2 Years after testimonial

Demelza contacted me recently and wrote to me how much a course she did 2 years was still benefited her sex & relationship till today.  I was so touched by her story and asked for a testimonial sharing the long-lasting impact up until today.

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Have a question or want to see if this is the right course for you? Send me a message on Instagram and let's chat!

I don't have a partner at the moment will this course benefit me?

Yes, for sure! A big part of this course is all about working on yourself first and only then bringing it into the bedroom. For every exercise I give examples of what to do for singles & women with a partner, so you can do the singles now and save the partner one for later!

I am already enjoying my sex life, will this course still be of value to me?

For sure! Before I started with any type of sexual Tantra I also considered my sex-life to be pretty good, and then I discovered a whole new layer of depth to sexuality, and I also discovered a whole other side of my sexuality I didn't even know I had! So yes, there is always more, you can always go deeper, and when you awaken the initiatress inside of you, she will absolutely take you there!

Can I start right after I buy this course?

Within 24H of buying the course you will be enrolled by my lovely assistant Amanda and you can start learning all the juicy tips and tricks right away.

Will I learn more about Tantra in this course?

Absolutely! I have done extensive tantric training and accumulated pearls of wisdom over the last years that you will learn about in this course. My whole approach and teaching style is based upon the essence of the tantric teachings. You will learn more about Tantra than you can google online!

What is your refund policy?

All purchases are final and non-refundable.

How long do I have access to all materials?

You have access to all course materials for 1 full year. PLUS Each time this course launches again you get to join the live calls once more!


Frequently Asked Questions

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"Your task is not to seek love, 

But, merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."




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