The Sexual Initiatiatress

Unlock your sexuality and feel a deeper connection with yourself as a woman. 
 

Next training : June 2021

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Go from holding back and hiding your sexuality to turning into that sexy, feminine part of yourself who feels empowered, confident and able to express herself fully, without feeling worried or shamed to get judged

Are you a power woman,
who wants to get out of her mind, and into her body to reconnect with your pleasure & feminine side?

There are moments where you feel so sexy and turned on you can’t stop yourself, you can’t keep your hands off your own body. 

But on the flip side, there are also moments where you feel completely insecure, you find yourself hiding the sexual side of you and when your partner comes into the bed you are often doing it for him.


You would love to be a confident woman who is fully in touch with her sexuality, knows what brings her pleasure, and doesn't feel shy to express what she wants. 

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You just need to know HOW to embody this sexually awakened and free woman inside of yourself. 

You want to...

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• learn to feel comfortable in your own beauty and body 

• get in touch with your feminine energy

• be a radiant woman who owns her sexiness in a natural way,

...but you are afraid what other people might think because your head gets in the way and you endlessly compare yourself with those other women. 

Even in the bedroom, you keep judging and criticizing yourself & doubting many things.....

 

"Is this normal?"
“Am I taking too long?”
“Am I ever going to come?”
“Does my belly not look weird?”

“Is something wrong with me?”

It's pretty frustrating isn't it?

Elaina used to rather work and make money than having sex. Being focussed on her passionate career she got caught up in her head and didn’t feel connected with her pleasure and turn on. After awakening her sexuality, she started to enjoy sex, became orgasmic and both her intimate life as well as her business started to thrive. 

Elaina Ray, 6-Figure Business Coach, Bali

And for yourself, maybe it's a struggle to embrace these things. To feel like a confident woman.
 

These bold and confident women are sexual initiatresses.

Just like the tantric goddesses they are named for, these women know how to connect with their sexuality, they feel confident in their body and draw a man close to them using their natural feminine power.

Men are so mesmerised by her radiant energy that they are doing everything to be intimate and close with her!

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Does this sound like you?

● You find it difficult to fully relax and let go during sex.

● You wish you could have a deeper and more heart centred connection during lovemaking.

●  You are not in touch with your full pleasure but you’re ready to learn an easier way to feel turned on and want to experience deeper orgasms— ones that don't make you feel like there is something wrong with you.
 

●  You are tired of experiencing disconnected, sometimes even painful, lovemaking. You want to have sex in a way that feels deeply enjoyable, intimate and touches upon that sense of sacredness and you’ve waited for it long enough.

Why would you wait even longer?

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This training is your initiation into sacred sexuality, so that you can embrace your feminine softness while reclaiming the power of being a liberated woman.

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Just imagine.... 

You could be a sexual initiatresses.

You can learn how to connect with YOUR sexuality.

You can feel confident in your body.

You can use your feminine energy, to feel turned on
in all areas of life (including work!)
 

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In Tantra,  every woman is born to be an initiatress.

Once a girl is old enough, she gets initiated into the secret feminine practices to become a powerful and irresistible woman.
 

The good news is that every woman has access to this power, 
you just need the right guidance and tools.

This training will give you exactly that so you can discover the secrets to be as sexually awakened as a tantric initiatress.
 

It’s not your fault you are not living as a sexual initiatress. Powerful women are not given the worship and appreciation they desire.

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1. We live in a society that doesn’t support women to own their beauty. Being confronted with "fake" ideal beauty images, we easily go into self-doubt about our own body. To break free from all the unhealthy stories and beliefs we were told we need to come together as women and shift how we relate to outer as well as inner beauty. 

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2. Women have received a lot of negativity around being sexual, and this started as early as our teenage period! Unfortunately, slut-shaming wasn't only happening then, it still is and that makes it very challenging to feel as free as you like to be. This is where your inner work comes in, but you don't have to do it alone, you will be sensitively guided into complete acceptance of all that you are!
 

3. You didn’t receive a proper sexual education, at least not from a tantric point of view! Most likely, no one that told you how to have sex in a way it feels deeply pleasurable and intimate while having amazing orgasms at the same time, am I right? 

I get it, love, I have been there too.

Hi, I am Arja

When people first meet me nowadays, they believe I have always felt confident in my body. That I've always been super sexual and in touch with my own pleasure.

But they couldn't be more wrong!

In fact, I used to feel very ashamed in my own skin, of my body. I rarely felt orgasmic and I thought that feeling sore after sex was normal.
 

When I discovered Sexual Tantra, I found out how wrong I was! I discovered I could become

a sexual initiatress.

I started to be orgasmic, enjoy hours of lovemaking, and learned how to express myself sexually, exactly the way I wanted and needed!   

Now, years later, I have helped hundreds of women to radically transform their sex lives, have the intimate relationships of their dreams, and get in touch with their own sexuality so that they feel powerful and free in their own bodies. 

And now it's your turn.

Meet Hannah

"I wish I learned this earlier in my life,
I would have made some different choices."

Hannah, Photographer Netherlands

Pillar 1

Entering the Sexual Sanctuary

First, you are entering a sacred sexual sanctuary. ​
You are not alone. We will create a sacred sisterhood for the upcoming 8 weeks so that you feel supported every step of the way. 

We ALL carry deep wounds around sexuality, we didn’t grow up in a culture that was very supportive of being sexual.

As you start this training and step your sacred feet onto our sexual sanctuary, you will discover that sex is never going to be the same again. 

 

We'll Cover:
 

• 4 Sexual Archetypes and practical tools to tap into yours.
   

• How to be the CEO of your pleasure, body & orgasms.
   

• Combining the masculine work environment with feminine power & softness, so that you get the most out of this training both in and outside of the bedroom. 
   

• The connection between tantra & sexuality and how to work holistically so that you set yourself up for success.

We'll Cover:
 

• How your mind serves as the greatest sex organ and what you should (and should not!) do with it. 
   

• The sexual society game so that you have a fun, exciting and eye-opening way to look at sex for the rest of your life.
   

• How to stop comparing yourself with other women so that you feel confident in who you are and what you do.
   

• Hot to move from slut-shaming or being slut-shamed to recognising the sacred sex.
   

• Moving through body-shame so that you feel confident in your own skin. 

Pillar 2

Sexual Inquiry

Kick-off your journey with a profound inquiry into sexuality.

Now that you courageously stepped your feet into the holy land of sexuality, you will be inspired to shift your mindset, especially in relation to today’s world and how reclaiming your sexual nature will make you feel confident and powerful within yourself.

You will be guided to release any shame around being sexual, investigate your unhealthy beliefs regarding sex, and let go of negative thoughts that stop you from exploring your sexuality to its full potential.

By the end of your inquiry, you let your sexual being rise and overpower any lingering doubts around the sacredness of sex.

Pillar 3

Loving yourself

 This is where you are going to put all the focus on you. You start to deeply connect with your own body and give yourself permission to feel all of yourself. 

You will learn how to move deeper into listening and trusting the wisdom within.

Working with sexuality can bring you to ecstatic bliss and deep love and it can also stir up some challenges. To connect you deeper to your own heart you will receive sacred rituals to do at home that will guide you into compassionate acceptance of all that you are!

We'll Cover:
 

• Tantric practices that will make you all in love with your own body.
   

• Full body mudras to connect more deeply with your sexual archetype - these are super powerful!
   

• 4 different types of touch to nurture and love yourself, PLUS you can use them with your partner too.
   

• Feminine rituals that will support you to drop deeper into your softness, so that you feel more connected to the woman within. 

We'll Cover:
 

• Different forms of sexual arousal so that you can discover yours and stop having the feeling you are not ready. 
   

• Female anatomy & curves of pleasure 
   

• Practical exercises to tone your yoni for more pleasure (not tight!)
   

• My 3-step method to be more orgasmic.
   

• Erotic pleasure mapping so that you discover the pleasure potential of your body. 

Pillar 4

The art of self-pleasure

Every sexual initiatress knows exactly what she likes and what leads her to orgasm.

Based upon your sexual archetype you get to discover your sexual potential and start unlocking it. 

So yes, this is where it gets juicy! 

You will get all the sexual education you never got and start to experience that your sexuality will open more fully. BONUS: feel how it ripples outward to all the other areas of your life so that you start to glow and people around you will notice it. 
 

The initiation

By the end of this program, you receive your initiation.
An immersion into your body, heart and soul.

This is where you come into your fullness. Your capacity to share love, pleasure and sexuality expand and you are ready to let the sexual initiatress shine through you. 

This is an awakening to your own femininity, the sacredness of your sexuality and to yourself as a woman.

This  part is the most sacred of all, the most mysterious, where you will initiate yourself into the sexiest, most powerful, most free and empowered version of yourself. .

Tantric Ritual & Empowerment

I have helped hundreds of women to stop holding themselves back sexually.

I have created the exact 4-step program, based on ancient wisdom and mixed with modern sexology
that is so unique, it has the power to completely transform your sex life. 

not for a few weeks
not for some months 

For the rest of your life.
 

Yes, I helped hundreds of women!
 

• Even if they never experienced an orgasm before. 
   

• Even when they totally didn't like what they saw in the mirror before. 
   

• Even when their sex & intimate life was a complete mess.
   

• Even when things with their partner didn't go well.

There are practical tools and techniques to help you feel sexually open, confident orgasmic and free. 

You just need the right guidance, that's what I am here for. 

Are you ready to claim your sexual initiatress power, and be so radiant that your partner will fall in love with you even more deeply? 

In this training, I will teach you the tantric tools & feminine practices that work on a deep level and shifts your ordinary thinking and behaviour.

This will impact and transform your love, sex, and relationship drastically.

Your partner (or any man!) will feel the shift in your vibe. 

He will feel your new confidence, power & softness.

You become irresistible and know exactly what to do to draw him closer to you.

You will also learn:  

What exact qualities those "other women" have that enable them to feel confident and sexy plus learn how you can get the same qualities so you stop holding yourself back sexually.

How you have been suppressing yourself and missing out on having intimate experiences due to incorrect sexual education. You will learn how you can shift your mindset and free yourself from sexual shame, guilt and inhibitions! 

How to feel comfortable “in your own skin.” This includes learning how to stop comparing yourself to other women and start feeling radiantly sexy. Most important – HIS reaction will amaze you!

Why you are not having as much pleasure as you could, and how you can start to feel more pleasure & orgasms before the program ends! The best part is, once you start to open up, you will have more pleasure than ever, not just now,
but for the rest of your life!

Meet Alexandra

"I could hardly feel any desire for sex and now I am finally enjoying to touch myself and love myself. I am able to let go more easily and enjoy sex!"

Alexandra, Project Manager, Germany

When you become a sexual initiatress you will receive

8 week live training - next training starts in June

Premium Package - All Included:

Eight 120-min Sexual Initiatress Training Calls, to feel empowered in your sexuality, more connected with your body and blossom in your femininity.
Value: $5000

Weekly Sexy Videos For each module. Good thing is, these are pre-recorded videos so all this juicy extra content doesn’t take precious time away from our live calls and you can learn more any time your heart desires, just log-in and go!
Value: $1100

Powerful Yoni Ritual to drop you right into your feminine and make you ready to receive pleasure in abundance! Women said that this ritual alone is worth the entire experience of the course!
Value: $300
 

Secret bonus masterclasses from expert guest teachers. Yes, my network is big and my contacts are many! I will get you the best guest teachers in the field to bring in more magic for you. 
Value $1450
 

Pre-recorded meditations & follow-along feminine practices so that you can drop in your body and you any time you wish. You will enjoy these long after the program has finished!
Value $500
 

Weekly Training Booklets with step-by-step exercises, instructions & inspiration to be more in touch with your body, and learn how to express your sensuality in a natural way
Value $500

Weekly Sister Exercises to make it powerful and real. These are one of the most powerful moments of the course where you get to practice all you are learning with another woman in the course.
Value: $Priceless

Ongoing Support in our Private Community Group. This extra support will help you to keep moving forward and don't fall back into old patterns every step of the way!
Value: $Priceless 

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On top of that, you get 1-Year access to all training material so that you don't have to rush anything and can come back to each part on your own pace. 

 

How about these bonuses to make you feel empowered and free even faster?

Testimonials from power women

Amanda wanted to have more lovemaking in her relationship and used this training to have amazing sex with her partner again. 

Amanda, business consultant, Uk.

Lexi used this training to have more heart-centred lovemaking with her partner and developed more sensations in her Yoni than ever before. 

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Lexi, EFT Therapist , Australia

"Chantal didn't feel so confident in her body and had difficulties communicating in the bedroom. She used this training to boost her self-esteem, fell in love with her body and now puts her boundaries with confidence. 

Chantal, Radiologist, Netherlands

Demelza felt a block around her sexuality, she did a 1-day workshop with Arja 2 years ago and shares the long-lasting impact on her sexuality and relationship till today.(PLUS she is now married!)

Demelza,, Netherlands

What previous women said
during the course

Women Are Divinity

Women Are Life

Women Are Truly Jewels

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- Yoni Tantra