Meeting without Masks

Pillar Five 

One of the most crucial aspects to open to the depths of sacred sexuality is influenced by our relationship with sex.


We ALL carry levels of sexual shame and if you want to get the cherry on top of the cake, you will have to do your own inner work first.


So if you are ready to let go of what stops you to discover the fullness of your sexual power, then join Arja for a for this liberating workshop.


Just Imagine...

You are surrounded by candlelight… feeling your body warm, relaxed. Your shoulders are dropped down, your heart open. As you look around the room you encounter the beautiful eyes of people you just met. Strange how you can feel Connected so quickly when everyone drops their masks and meet in authenticity and vulnerability. 

Having gone through a series of practical and intimate exercises you feel a sense of lightness in your body, a freedom, like a weight you have been carrying for so long, finally dropped.

Goosebumps race up your arms as you feel ready to step into your full sexual potential. Through the powerful discussions and insights you receive this day your old tired ways of being and thinking melt away and an epic feeling of inner freedom washes over you. 
Feeling deeply supported and held by the energy of the group, you are able to speak your truth and feel the act of power ripple outward. You leave with a magnificent feeling, that the way you relate to sexuality will never be quite the same. . . 


What do you get out of this course?


Would you like to let go of shame, insecurities, and inhibitions around sexuality to connect with the bliss-full and ecstatic feelings of your own intimacy?


Of course, you would! Who wants to keep themselves in bondage through guilt and shame around sexuality?


We ALL carry different levels of sexual shame. The environment where we grew up hasn’t supported a healthy, beautiful and profound connection with the beauty of sexuality. If you are ready to FULLY embrace the sacredness of sex you are going to Love this workshop.


The course will help you to release the ways you have made the (often unconscious) choice to limit yourselves. Through informing, inspiring, and empowering conversations, lectures and exercises, you will explore a wide variety of topics around intimacy and sexuality in a playful, serious and compassionate manner. Using teachings from modern sexology you will bring awareness to what is holding you back from stepping into a healthy and harmonious expression of the sexual energy.
 Under the umbrella of the tantric teachings we honor, worship, and integrate the sexual energy as part of our spiritual practice, so this life force energy can fuel you on all aspects of your being. By the end of this workshop
, you will feel encouraged, refreshed, open and confident to step into your sexual power! 


In this Workshop you will Learn to:

Investigate your relationship with sexuality

Let go of limiting beliefs & Societal conditioning that stop you from fully stepping into your sexual power

Explore theme’s you didn’t know existed, have strong judgment over, are curious or fantasizes about.

Break free from taboo, fear, shame & guilt and develop a more relaxed and open minded attitude towards (your) sexuality.

 Start owning your sexual energy and let your sensuality come to its fullest expression.

 Feel yourself as an erotic being

Connect with the depth of Self-Love

Go out in the world to explore, play and enjoy!

***You can come by yourself or with a partner, the choice is yours!

Curious what others say?

People who joined before you, sharing their experiences with Arja


The Journey of this workshop

The workshop is specifically designed to help you let go of societal conditioning, limiting beliefs & sexual inhibitions, which are preventing you to go deeper in tantric ecstasy & bliss.


During our time together you will invite vulnerability and compassion to be your guides. Finally, you take the time to press pause on your life so you can go within and nourish parts of yourself that you have ignored for so long.


You will feel safe to tap into space where you can talk openly and authentically, quickly you will notice how the power of these qualities create a real connection. While you are sensitively guided you have the opportunity to move through places of numbness or resistance, and from there into compassionate acceptance of all that you are.


As you come into your fullness your capacity to share Love, pleasure and sexuality expand. You become a catalyst and blessings for others in your life. You feel capable of asking for what you desire and you can gracefully express your own boundaries.


On our last evening, we’ll bring it all together - integrating, relaxing and reflecting on the power of our time here. Embodying our renewed grace and beauty, we will celebrate our connection with a sacred and nourishing ritual.

This workshop is totally for you if:

  • You are ready to let go of limiting beliefs, negative thoughts and social conditioning around sexuality.

  • You are yearning for a deep connection with yourself and the sacredness of sex

  • You’re okay with being vulnerable within a sacred space.

  • It’s time to sync up your life with your soul

  • You’re both excited and nervous about this workshop!


This workshop is not for you if:

  • You don’t want to do your own inner work and overcome your own beliefs.

  • You’re attached to blaming outside circumstances for your happiness and success.

  • You enjoy making excuses, being negative or defensive.

  • You take more than you give.

  • Adventure, personal growth and major breakthroughs bore you.

  • You aren’t willing to laugh, cry, hug – and get a little dusty dirty.


What's Included?

2 solid days of Tantric teachings
A sacred space filled with love, compassion, respect, and connection
Profound theoretical knowledge, interactive discussions, and transformative exercises
A beautiful group setting with mind-liked people 
A magic closing ritual


What is not included?

Food, accommodation, and transportation to the venue


Next Dates:

August 31st - 1st of September

Utrecht, Netherlands



My promise to You


After 7 years of traveling the world completely by myself, I couldn’t do anything else than devote my life to the tantric path. I have been greatly inspired while living in tantric communities and study with the foremost spiritual leaders and teachers. Only after I discovered the importance of yoga and meditation and its integration with tantra, I begin the long, slow road to discover the magic that is hidden in this world. I went almost broke,  spending so much of my finances on the most profound tantra initiations and different tantra, yoga, and meditation teacher training programs, learning the entire background of the tantra yoga system. I have spent over 100 days meditating in silence, connecting with the depth of the Heart, while also struggling with all the hesitations of the mind. 

My intensive and comprehensive study,  self-practice, research, and personal experiences are all combined to create the most valuable, life-changing and transformational workshops and retreats for you.

I guarantee that every course is put together with the most Love, care, passion, and enthusiasm that will not only change your life forever…


You will have the practical tools you need to expand your mind, open your heart, have more freedom and have the sexual life you always wanted. 


Arja's Approach

For Events, Workshops, Retreats or Festivals

The teachings Arja passes on are mainly based upon non-dual (advaita) Tantra, inspired by Kashmiri Shaivism, Kaula Tantra and influenced by various other traditions and teachers around the world. Arja’s sessions are infused with her own understanding, transformation, and experiences on the tantric path, offering you an authentic and down-to-earth transmission. In each course, you will gain profound theoretic knowledge to deepen your understanding of tantra as well as practical and transformative exercises to embody your new perspectives. Arja’s intention is to teach from the traditional tantric perspective while centering it around the Yoga of the Heart. The teachings are adapted to a modern approach while still preserving the mystique, richness, and essence of the ancient tradition. Tantra belongs to the Yoga tradition and is an all-embracing life philosophy that will help you to integrate the physical, external everyday life with the subtle, internal longing for the Truth, meaning and connection.

With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift.


Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing.

- Wayne Dyer


Experiences from Real people

Johnny, Israel

Fabienne, Usa

"This workshop is very unique in the Tantra world. Arja takes a deep, meditative, healing approach to Tantra. She took us in a journey to discover our deepest beliefs and approaches to sexuality. She brings the true essence of sexual Tantra which is to grow spiritually. I received deep insights and beautiful healing experiences in a safe, warm environment"


Shay, Israel

"Arja's workshop was a very enjoyable experience. From the beginning till the very end, I could feel her presence and her knowledge making us feeling safe. I felt guided, heard and seen. She offered the opportunity to each and everyone of us to express ourselves. She knows how to hold the space and she prepared this WS, taking care of every single details. It is very inspiring. I would definitely recommend this workshop because it is accessible to everybody and can have beneficial effects on many levels. Arja was fully present from the beginning to the end. She offered her workshop with vulnerability and expertise. What a great teacher!"


Jina, Switzerland

"Arja is an authentic and balanced facilitator that creates a field of heart and depth so that participants can look within themselves with gentleness and curiosity to reveal greater Truths of being"


Namjai, USA

"Not knowing what to expect is the best way to enter this workshop. Letting go, being honest and breaking free of your comfort zone to dig deeper within is key during these two days. There is a very good and natural build up towards the end ceremony, which is so beautiful!"


Tanya, Netherlands

"I took this workshop because I felt a strong feeling pushing me and I'm really really happy I followed it! Even though I had already some experience in Tantra, this workshop made me dive deep into my conditionings and raised very interesting questionings inside, the practices and rituals were beautiful and really supportive to this process of self inquiry. Arja is an amazing facilitator and I would recommend anyone to just learn by witnessing her embodying her teachings. Her integrity and example on the tantric path are the things I will remember the most from this weekend!"


Elsa, France

"Do you have questions about sex? Do you need to express what you feel about it? Are you holding on to awkward feelings towards your sexual instincts? Do you dishonor your body and you fear to be seen? So then you should give to this course a try. 
You will break through this in a safe space and with ease during the process. 
You will be surprised in how much you can open your mind and emotions to strangers and how much you will grow doing the same."


Mariel, Argentina

"It was an amazing and deep experience. I really connect with my divine essence. Also great understanding about sexuality and how other people point of views helps to understand mine. I highly recommend this workshop. Especially to people who would like to understand sexuality better and to connect with themselves."


Ruben, Spain