Why I love erotic tantric sex rituals and how you can experience them too

Updated: Jun 6, 2019

Everything that happened that night, is far away from sex as I ever knew it... It's January 2016... I am sitting on my knees in front of the altar, my hands in prayer pose, pressed up against my naked breasts. My thumbs are penetrating my sternum, a pressure that normally I wouldn't be able to handle, and now, I can't do anything than press harder, into my Heart, into my dear, dear Heart. 




I entered the sacred tremor of this Heart, and it feels like an expansion of bliss on every level of my being. I feel deep deep gratitude, that illuminates every cell of my body, a body, which turned into a body full of light. 


I am feeling speechless, I feel a deep silence, and a tremendous joy at the same time. My whole being is in awe, in wonderment, in reverence of the magnificence of this universe. 

As I look at my partner, I can’t see anything else but the presence in his eyes, the eternity in his eyes, the whole universe, in his eyes. 


We offered ourselves to the Gods, We made love in name of the gods, we made love with the gods, and ultimately we dissolved and realized that all there ever was, all there ever will be, and all we ever are is God. 


We turned our room into a temple, where the bed was the altar,  our lovemaking the prayer, and our ego was the offering. 


I lost track of time, I lost track of space, while my partner worshipped me in a way, I never experienced before. This was not about the curves of my body or the sweetness of my lips. I felt honored and seen in a way that went beyond any physicality, his worship penetrated me to the depth of my soul, where there was no him, nor I, all that remained was the embodiment of Shiva, loving Shakti. 


How could lovemaking be anything else than a sacred act of union? How could I have ever, not honor the power of sexual energy? And how could I ever think, that sex is not sacred?

This is the power of ritual, this is the power of offering all of ourselves, this is the magic that the body feels, when the soul trembles in gratitude and bows down, to something far, far, far greater than ourselves.


There are no words that can describe the beauty of ritual, there is only the experience itself, that can leave me speechless. There is nothing that can bring me to a greater feeling of wonderment, of appreciation and of prayer than ritual. There is nothing that brings me in greater intimacy, connection and love with a partner, than ritual. 


And for me, there is nothing that is more precious, than sharing and offering all my love, all my heart, all my being, all my intensity through lovemaking, in ritual. 


And I would love for you, to experience the same... This is why I created the Love, Ritual & Eroticism retreat - for couples only. So we can go on a journey together of magic and mystery, of love and sensuality, of connecting sex, with spirit. Saying that I am excited to host this would be an understatement, you need to be there. Yes Arja, I want to be initiated into erotic rituals!



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